Strengthen your commitment by
renewing wedding vows.
Are you
considering renewing wedding vows?
Are you a
little unsure about what to do next or even whether it is a
good idea?
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There are a
lot of things to consider:
Why should you
renew your vows?
What is the
right protocol for renewing wedding vows?
Who should be
renewing wedding vows?
What are the
words to say when you are renewing your wedding
vows?
First, who should be renewing
wedding vows?
One expert,
suggested that couples have a choice today. They
either
divorce or
periodically focus on renewing wedding
vows.
Today's high
divorce rates may not leave much time for some couples to be
renewing wedding vows. Yet, many of us have
recognized our
struggles and chosen the course of
renewing wedding vows
instead of divorce or murder.
Ozzy and
Sharon Osbourne renewed their wedding vows on New Years Eve
2002. They had completed 20 years of marriage in spite of the
mad cap world of rock and roll. They had a second reason,
Sharon had just survived a serious bout with colon cancer.
Nothing causes us to reflect on where we
are,
how far we have
come, and
where we are
going like a
major medical crisis.
Renewing
wedding vows is not just for celebrities, but many celebrities
have found that renewing wedding vows has strengthened their
marriages. Robert de Niro and Grace Hightower; David and
Victoria Beckham; and Madonna and Guy Richie have all enjoyed
the benefits of renewing wedding vows.
Why Do People
choose renewing wedding vows?
Do you really need an occasion
or reason?
Maybe the
reason is that you chose to get married in the first place. You
have already made your commitment, but all of us have
short
memories that need
refreshed from
time to time.
There may be
some poor reasons to engage in renewing wedding vows. For
example, it would not be a good idea to hold a renewing wedding
vows even just because you needed an excuse for a big
party.
Renewing
wedding vows should be a very
meaningful renewal
of the life
long commitment that you make to each
other.
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So, what are
some good reasons for renewing wedding vows?
To celebrate
a major wedding
anniversary; overcoming a major
life
challenge;
emerging from a rough patch in your marriage; or you
simply want to strengthen your
relationship - all of these are good reasons
for renewing wedding vows.
You may have
had a small intimate wedding; or you may even have eloped; or
had a destination wedding; and you now feel that you'd like all
your friends and relatives to witness your renewing wedding
vows. You may have had a civil ceremony and feel that now you
want to have a religious ceremony.
At certain
points in our lives we recognize
changes in our
lifestyles.
Reaffirming our desires, aims, and commitments for the
future can be an imporant step forward into the next
phase of our lives. We can find our roots in renewing
wedding vows.
But then
again, who could need a better reason for renewing wedding vows
than it is a very
romantic thing to do?
What is the
proper protocol for renewing wedding vows?
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As renewing
wedding vows is not a legally binding
ceremony, the
etiquette is not nearly as formal as for the initial wedding.
For instance there is no need for a licensed Officiant.
Therefore the Officiant can be anyone -- one of your children,
a close friend or a licensed Officiant if you like.
Also there is
no call for presents or other wedding functions like bachelor
or bachelorette parties. In fact they may be frowned upon. You
want the presence of your friends and relatives not their
presents!
You should
make it clear that you don't want presents either on the formal
invitation or by word of mouth, for instance, on acceptance of
the invitation.
What do you
say when renewing wedding vows?
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The structure
of the renewing vow ceremony itself and what is said is largely
up to you. You can use your original vows as the basis of the
renewing marriage vow ceremony, or you can write or have
something written especially for the occasion.
Your children
and parents can be included in the ceremony by having a family
unity ceremony as part of the renewing vows proceedings. Using
a unity ceremony can help bind the family together so that you
go forward with a renewed commitment to each other.
A unity sand
ceremony is a wonderful way to express family unity and it has
the advantage of giving you a beautiful physical memento of the
commitments made on the happy day.
The unity sand
ceremony is based on ages old American Indian or Hawaiian
wedding ceremonies. It signifies the joining of two lives into
one by the pouring of different colored sands by the two people
into a single unity jar. This gives a pattern from the blending
of the colors and a lasting memento of the occasion.
You choose how
your renewing wedding vows goes. You are in charge.
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Whether you
had a large no expense spared wedding or an elopement it
doesn't matter. It is up to you to decide on a cost effective
small intimate renewing wedding vows ceremony or to pull out
all the stops and really have the big renewing vows ceremony
that you may have wanted but missed out on before.
It's
all up to you and with the relaxed etiquette and
potential informality of the ceremony you can really add your
personality to the proceedings. You can really make the
renewing wedding vows celebration an Affair to
Remember!
You may also
choose to make your event a private get
away, a
private romantic occasion, all set for the renewing
wedding vows between two committed lovers.
When all is
said and one, you may be one of those couples who
chooses not to get a
divorce in favor of renewing wedding
vows. Remember
the experts say, couples have a choice today. They
either
divorce or
periodically focus on renewing wedding
vows.
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